The People Pleasers Recovery Club
Are you ready to put people-pleasing behind you and start living the life you actually want?
The People Pleasers Recovery Club is for you if:
⛅️ Your default to saying yes before you even consider if you’d rather say no.
⛅️ You look at your jam-packed calendar and wish that you had some space to do what you actually want.
⛅️ You’re always the first person to offer to drive / host / give up their needs in your friendship group.
You’re About To Enter A New Era
You might not know it yet, but I think you’re ready to step into your choosing me era.
It’s time to stop caring about what people think. You know that it’s taking up far too much of your headspace and energy.
Headspace that could be put to far better use doing things that actually enhance your life, not keep you in a spiral of self-doubt.
It is time to learn how to trust yourself, listen to what you need, and only say yes to the things you actually want to do. Without the guilt.
Freedom From People-Pleasing Is Within Reach
I can’t wait for you to feel the freedom that you get when you recover from people pleasing. I honestly think that it is a skill that everyone should learn, because life is too short to live someone else’s and not your own.
You can say no and be kind. You can choose you without being selfish. You can feel good about yourself without using other people as validation vending machines.
And when you do, your whole life gets a glow up.
“The Christmas Fairy”
I’ve been where you are, I was a people pleaser. I was so much of a people pleaser that at Christmas I would be running around doing all of my family’s Christmas shopping for them, sometimes even wrapping it and writing the tag. I was affectionately known as ‘the Christmas fairy’. I’d sort everything out from presents to the table settings.
I know what it’s like to put everyone’s happiness first and be hung up about what they think. I’d be feeling burnout, especially at high pressure times like Christmas.
People pleasing felt like wearing an underwired bra 3 sizes too small everyday. It didn’t feel good but I felt like I had to wear it everyday cause that is what I’d always done.
From Playing Small To Standing In My Power
At my people-pleasing rock bottom I wasn’t speaking up for myself at work so had the biggest to-do list, I was sneaking on my laptop in the evenings to get stuff finished that probably wasn’t mine to take in the first place. But I couldn’t say no.
Do you ever wish that you could be like your friend who just does what she wants and owns it? They’re confident and can say no with the ease, whilst you’re overthink it and end up committing to a list of things you don’t want to do?
I’ll be real with you, that was me. I’ve done the work and can recognise when I’m saying yes when I mean no, when I’m over apologising or when I’m playing small so I don’t ‘rock the boat’. I know the strength it takes to stand in my power, choosing myself and choosing what makes me happy.
If that also sounds like you, you’re not alone!
Enter: The People Pleasers Recovery Club
A place to feel accepted and recover from people pleasing together, celebrating each courageous move that you’ve made.
A community of people pleasers that will learn what they need to put people-pleasing behind them:
- Confidence and feeling empowered
- Listening to what you need
- Time for you
- Being able to say no
- Healthy boundaries
The People Pleasers Recovery Club is here and ready for you!
After 12 wonderful weeks together, you’ll be ready to say no to others, and yes to yourself to live the life you actually want.
The Group Programme
The People Pleasers Recovery Club includes…
- 5 online workshops
- 2 group coaching sessions
- An amazing in-person closing ceremony event day in Nottingham
- Optional message support in between sessions
- A welcome gift sent to your door 🎁
What’s The Investment?
Early bird price: £750
(Payment plans available: £250/month for 3 months, £125/month for 6 months)
Full price: £999
(Payment plans available: £333/month for 3 months, £166.50/month for 6 months)
If it’s good enough for Kim Cattrall it’s good enough for you, right?
Here’s what some lovely people have said about me…
One last thing…
I invite you to take a moment to imagine what’s possible for you…
Imagine waking looking at your calendar and only seeing things that excite you and bring you joy?
Imagine you don’t feel that crippling anxiety so you can’t confidently say no to things you don’t want.
Imagine if you had a club of people cheerleading you on to stop you from saying yes to Every. Single. Thing. To having healthy boundaries — every single day.
Did you see my people pleasers guide to saying no?
I think you’ll like it.
It’s all about strategies to say no in a way that still feels good for you. I speak about my experience, give you my best tips and there’s inspirational quotes sprinkled in there all about people pleasing that might just change your perspective.